How to Show the Five Professional Love Languages in the Workplace

Do you know your team’s professional love languages?

March 15, 2022
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You may be familiar with the five love languages when it comes to personal relationships, but have you heard of professional love languages? Sometimes known as languages of appreciation, workplace love languages is a way to understand how your coworkers like to be recognized and appreciated. In the same way understanding different work styles can help the team work better together, understanding different professional love languages can improve communication and morale. 

So, what are the five professional love languages? They are:

  • Feedback as Words of Affirmation
  • Dedicated 1:1 as Quality of Time 
  • Rewards as Receiving Gifts 
  • Support as Acts of Service - Get Help
  • Encouragement as Physical Touch 
Provide Opportunities for Feedback

A great way to provide words of affirmation to your employees is to offer constructive and positive feedback. Giving feedback shows that you are paying attention to their work and recognizing their achievements. When the feedback is reasonable and actionable, it can be an investment into not only their work but their professional development as well. 

Make sure you provide regular opportunities for feedback (remember, this goes both ways). Having a structured way and schedule to collect feedback can be incredibly valuable to the relationship between a manager and their team. Assembly makes this easy with the Manager feedback template. This workflow allows you to organize different feedback meetings (1:1 or performance evaluations), set and track goals, and observe growth all from one place. Learn more about how the Manager Feedback Flow works here.  

Set Aside Individual Time

The best managers make sure they are spending individual time with their team members to give undivided attention. It’s easy to get lost in the hustle of work and teams, so having a dedicated one-on-one can provide space for the employee to voice concerns, give feedback, get help, or just chat. 

If you want to add structure, transparency, and accountability to your one-one-one meetings, try the customizable One on One meeting template. This template will help you document important goals and KPIs, create and edit talking points, and collect feedback all in one place Learn more about this one-on-one workflow template here

Recognize and Reward

Who doesn’t like being rewarded for their contributions? Employee recognition is one of the most important drivers for company culture and employee retention. A tangible gift is a great way to show appreciation. Rewards like gift cards and sponsored meals are popular but they can come in other forms as well like company swag, trophies, donations to charities, or even opportunities for professional growth. 

When done correctly, employee recognition should be integrated in the daily workflow and allow everyone to feel valued by their peers and managers. With Assembly’s Give Recognition Flow, employees and managers can recognize each other for work well done, publicly celebrate them, and redeem those recognitions for fun rewards. Learn how you can build a culture of internal appreciation here

Give a Helping Hand

We could all use a hand, and offering support or going out of your way to help is a great gesture of appreciation. “Actions speak louder than words” and supportive actions like answering questions, giving resources, or doing the work with them can say a lot. Not only does this show appreciation it can also create a spirit of teamwork. 

Don’t make it hard to ask for help. Whether the person is a new employee or a seasoned executive, we all need help sometimes. Empower your people to reach out and help others by using a tool like Assembly’s Get Help Flow. This Flow creates a place for people to request help and offer support, while opening up internal communication. Learn how you can build a culture of open communication and support here

Express Encouragement

In the workplace a love language like physical touch can be tricky, but essentially this love language comes down to expressing encouragement. This can be done with high-fives and thumbs-up (in person or with emojis) or cheering your coworkers on. Encouraging someone shows that you care and believe in their value and growth.

A great way to encourage your employees is to celebrate and publicly recognize them. Regularly celebrate your employees in a public and meaningful way and provide opportunities for team mates and managers to nominate each other. Assembly’s Employee Nomination Template engages employees to nominate and vote for one another. This way, there are so many opportunities for employees to feel valued and noticed for their contributions. Learn more about encouraging your employees with nominations and recognition here


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Frequently Asked Questions

Is Assembly SOC 2 compliant?

Yes, at Assembly, security is a top priority. Each quarter, we have ongoing security work that is everyone’s responsibility. While we maintain a strong security posture, it was important for us to prove to our customers that we do everything we claim to do. This led us to pursue a SOC 2 Type II report that would provide evidence of our compliance with industry gold-standard security practice.

What's the ROI for employee recognition?

There is study after study showing that employee recognition leads to increased engagement. This in return creates an environment where employees are happier and more motivated which increase productivity and reduces voluntary turnover significantly. In order to filled critical roles, companies tend to spend nearly twice the value of an annual salary. Assembly is an investment in your employees that supports your bottom line.

Does Assembly offer longer-term contracts?

Yes, we will offer contracts for companies with longer-term agreements to help larger customers have more certainty around future costs.

The minimum agreement term is a 12-month subscription.

Does Assembly offer onboarding support?

We do! Any new customer needing further support to get started with Assembly to ensure you're set up for success can request custom onboarding support. These one-time services start at $5,000. Improving your employee experience is about much more than just using our amazing software; it’s about transforming your business to create a workplace that people love. That’s much easier to do with the personal support and advice from our passionate people experts.

Is there a free version of Assembly?

Yes. We offer a completely free plan for up to 50 team members. This plan is intended for teams or organizations that are looking to get started with an employee engagement tool. Keep in mind, this plan is limited in features.

All customers can open an Assembly account for free and get started without a credit card. Then you can change plans as necessary.

How much do rewards cost?

At the time of redemption (when your employees exchange their points for a paid reward) you'll pay face value. If a reward is a $10 Amazon gift card, your cost will be $10. All paid rewards are billed for on a monthly basis.

The good news is that you don't have to pay for rewards upfront because we only charge you when points are redeemed, not when they're earned.

Does Assembly offer discounts?

We offer discounts or educational or charitable organizations. In order to secure a discount, you'll first need to book a demo with a customer support specialist.

For all other organizations, we are willing to consider longer-term agreements in exchange for discounts. To set up annual plans or longer, you will need to book a demo with a customer support specialist.

How do I cancel my plan if needed?

If you're on a month to month plan, you can go here and cancel anytime. If you're having concerns or need help setting up your account for success, you can always book a demo with a customer support specialist.

If you're on a longer-term custom plan, you'll need to reach out to your customer support specialist to cancel your account or email us at support@joinassembly.com.

What customizations are available?

Great question! You can customize your core values to match your organization's to boost and track alignment. You can change your currency from the 🏆 emoji (our default) to any emoji of your choice. You can swap our logo for your own. You can also set up company culture rewards such as, "Lunch with the CEO," "Buy a book on us," and so much more!

Who can give or receive recognition?

While we recommend a peer to peer set up where anyone in your organization can give or receive recognition, you can set up Assembly however you want. If you need to limit the people who can give or receive recognition, that's perfectly fine and can be done from your Admin, here.

What integrations are available?

Assembly connects to the tools your employees use every day to offer an easy, seamless experience with minimal change management.  

Assembly has integrations with HCM/HRIS systems like ADP, Google, Office 365, and Slack. We also integrate with communication tools like Slack and Teams so you and your employees can access Assembly wherever they work now.

What's your average adoption rate?

That depends on the company's permissions set up. That said, over 90% of the employees on Assembly's platform are recognized on a monthly basis. That means nearly every employee across all of our customers are receiving regular recognition from their peers, managers, or leadership. We're extremely proud of this.

Must rewards be set up to use Assembly?

They are not required. You can use Assembly without having rewards set up. However, we don't recommend it if you intend to have a high adoption and usage rate. You can always keep the costs down by offering internal culture rewards that are fulfilled by you internally.

Are points required to use Assembly?

No, you can remove allowances from anyone or everyone. It's up to you but we do recommend using points whether they're worth a real dollar value or not. Companies that use points have a much higher engagement rate even if those points don't exchange for real dollars.

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